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Elizabeth Kite's avatar

I'm really surprised that The Last Duel isn't getting more love in these end of year lists. Thanks for at least including it in honorable mentions- most exclude it completely. For my money, it's in the top 3 of the year- thoughtful, beautifully acted, and surprisingly funny. And it's the #1 film of 2021 in the category of unconvincing blond hair on an actor!

Also finally caught The Power of the Dog. WOW. It's one of those films where you can tell how good it's going to be after 10 minutes. And our Roku restarted during the Benedict Cumberbatch bathing scene, which I interpret as some kind of southern-belle-getting-the-vapors fainting spell.

Zef Wagner's avatar

Thank you for calling out how incredibly annoying the "age gap" discourse has gotten. Are movies no longer allowed to explore complex relationship types that actually do exist in our society? I can understand more being concerned about the pattern in older films where middle-aged men were constantly in relationships with women in their 20s and it wasn't even mentioned in the film, because that was a trope that actually caused some damage by making people think that older men should always date younger women. But this concern about movies like Red Rocket and Licorice Pizza seems ridiculous. First of all, Red Rocket clearly shows it as an exploitative situation, and Licorice Pizza directly confronts how conflicted Alana is about the connection she feels to Gary and what to do about it. Also, other than showing him her boobs one time and kissing him one time, which both seem pretty innocent to me, there's no hint of an actual sexual relationship. But even if there was, who cares? I hazard to guess that plenty of 25-year-old women slept with 16-year-old guys in the 1970s, and even today I'm sure it happens more than people realize. Whatever you might think about that, it does happen and it's okay for films to explore all kinds of situations. That's what film is for. Again, Licorice Pizza doesn't shy away from it. Alana is disgusted at times at her attraction to Gary, and what it says about her level of maturity and where she's at in her life, yet she can't deny it. It strikes me that it's not like we see any discourse about Titane being "problematic" for exploring the situation of pretending to be someone's dead son to fill that role in his life, despite being a pregnant woman. I think people get that the film is just trying to explore the implications of a strange relationship situation, even if it's kind of messed up. But for whatever reason (I guess because it hits home for more people), many folks seem to think Licorice Pizza and Red Rocket are "problematic" for exploring a far more common situation.

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